I am sorry about the English.
there is no way to tell when a joke or a friendly gesture
become harassment. In most cases a strict and assertive
act by the woman will stop the harassment or at least
classify the act as one.
the problem is that a women that don't hasitate to use their
femininity in order to get jobs, reduce prices, hitchhike, get
passing drivers to fix their cars, get the network support guy
to fix their computers in higher priority...
(I can go like this forever).
are afraid of loosing their charm and all the benefits it got for
them. you take shortcuts, and this is the price you have to
pay.
this problem will evenutally disappear thanks to the fact that
the number of women in higher offices is increasing and when
women will not be able to use their feminine charms to get things
they will not have to fear shutting it for a few moments of
assertiveness.

girl power!!!