I'll refer to the fifth point:
when I was a young soldier there was that female sergeant
who enjoyed embarrassing me (and some other young soldiers)
by pinching ,touching asking questions and making assumption
about my sex life.
that it was realy unpleasent to me and to all the other guys.
so don't say that men enjoy being a sex object. (we do tend
to say that but most of us don't know what we are talking about
anyway).

by the way the harassment stopped once we simply told that
girl that she was making us feel uncomfortable and asked her
to stop in a way no one could understand otherwise.
I advise wemen that face sexual harassment to take this
course of action. you won't get fired for not doing it with
the boss (unless you got the job in the first place for giving the
impression that you would but this is another problem)