The problem is that you do the calculation for the enemy.
A country doesn't have to care about the life of it enemies. Why should we? we have enough problems keeping our soliders alive.
Does any country takes special care not to hurt the enemy? did the US in Viatman and Bosnia avoided killing civillians?

The problem with this country is that we care about the enemy more than we care about our soliders. And we are corrupted enough to believe that this is the moral thing to do.

And the fact that our goverment teaches our neighbors that the only way to do business is with violance is another problem altogether.

Violance should be answered with violance, peaceful conduct should be answered by giving them all the help we can - freedom, loans, education, rights, whatever we can.

"Our aim now is to force Israel to deal with Palestinians and other Arabs with respect and justice, without dictating its terms, resolutions and policies on Arabs and Palestinians"