What would you have felt if your
uncle had asked you at your bar mitzva
if you already had a "wet dream"?or
if have hare in a bit lower place...
There are some things you can not do
to a woman.
If, where you work, there is a woman
that seems to be religious
(long dresse/skirts, kissing mezuza etc.)
Would you feel comefortable touching her?
just shaking her hand or a
friendly "kafa"?
I belive not. Because by her appearence
she shows she does not accept this acts from a man.
But not all women feel the need to
wear a skirt.
So how will you know ?
Not only women have intuetion.
You should see, not just look.
does the woman aprove of you being close?
Is she the hugging type ? who likes hugging and friendly kisses?
And even if she is that kind of a woman,
It DOES NOT mean she is "zola" and
"notenet".
Every case to his body
(it sounds better in hebrew).
Reading the articales here
I beleive the male population here have
enough sense to know what is "mutar"
and what is "asur".
Women can also make a difference between
remarks they recieve.
My officer called me once or twice chamuda. But it made it sound like
he was caring for me in a proper manner -
After all he was responsable for me.
I didn't find it offending,
but still i asked him to refer
to me by my name.
Another example - I'm working at a store
and sometimes (not very often) a man calls me motek. So what ?
I am not responsable for his manners,
and I can feel from his acts and figure
of speech that he doesn't want to
offend me.
There are too many cases of sexual abuses.
But we (men & women) need to find
the thin line between arrasment
and a fond word and a kind touch.

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